

Caregiver Chronicles: When Hope Is Defunded
I haven’t written here in close to a year. Not because caregiving stopped—if anything, it intensified—but because I ran out of bandwidth to explain a life that no one seemed to be listening to anyway. I didn’t volunteer last year. I didn’t advocate. I didn’t write. I went quiet. Caregiving continued almost every day. What changed was me. The last year stripped something personal from me—layer by layer. Loss. Grief. The slow realization that while my life had narrowed to sched
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Jan 43 min read


Taking the Reins: Power of Attorney, Pensions, and Other Surprises
The First Envelope I think the first time I realized what a long road helping out would be was nearly a decade ago, when my mother’s copy...
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May 23, 20253 min read




























